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30 life lessons from my 30-year life.

Though the title says: I learned in 30 years but most of the things I learned in the last ten years.

1. Friends: New friends will come, old will go, some will stay with you. But, the family is the one kind of friend which will stay with you forever.

2. Patience: Learn to have patience.

3. Consistency & Risk: Consistency and risk is the key for any success.

4. Perfection: Don't wait too much to make something perfect, just start. Improve along the time.

5. Financial Freedom: Financial Freedom is necessary.

6. Travel: Travel makes you happy.

7. Excercise & Nutrition: Exercise and nutrition is important.

8. Offline: Offline friends are better than online friends.

9. Coffee Date: Meeting on coffee is better than a phone call.

10. Failure: You will fail most of the time with no reason.

11. Happiness: Have something which makes you happy and be a part of that community.

12. Respect: Respect others not because they are good at something, just because they are the good human being.

13. Argument: Don't indulge yourself in an argument with a narrow-minded person, just agree to him, and move on.

14. Time & You: Spending time alone is not a bad idea, it allows you to know more about yourself.

15. Life: Life is not easy, never it was for anyone. Learn not to cry about it.

16. Bucket List: Make a bucket list e.g. things you want to do before you die.

17. Energy: Don't waste your energy on criticizing people rather spend that energy in your work.

18. We Did: Stop saying 'I did', start saying 'We did'.

19. Bargaining: Try not to bargain too much with people who make living on a daily basis e.g. roadside shoppers or small vendors.

20. Care & Worry: Nobody cares about you and your feelings except your family and close friends so stop worrying about others.

21. Rich/Famous/Beautiful: Try to be at least one: rich, famous or beautiful.

22. Regret: If you want to do something, just do it. Later when you'll be old, you'll only have the regret of not trying.

23. Filter out People: Learn to filter out people who're not passionate like you, not minded like you. They waste your lot of time in everyday's life.

24. Be Calm: Feel happier even if things not working, be calm, at least your breath is running.

25. Sleep: Sleep for at least 8 hours, it's important.

26. Always Remember: End of the day, everyone has to die. Keep your ego aside and do some real stuff.

27. Ugly Fight: Avoid discussions reg. political parties and religions until you have a good moderator. It generally converts into an ugly fight.

28. Day Off: Take a day off from your phone, TV, laptop once in a week at least.

29. No: Learn to say 'No'. It's hard but at the same time, it's good to not indulge in things which are not of your interest.

30. Comfort Zone: Say 'Yes' more to go out of your comfort zone for good opportunities. Overcome your fears here. It's the place where personal growth happens.

4 Comments

  1. This shows every year of your life taught you something different. I am damn sure everyone faces same kind of challenges in their lives and they can match them with the above 30 learnings.

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  2. Quite realistic points. One can easily relate to them. Good effort to jot them down at a single place.

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  3. These are the good message for us to grow up on the things. People also can relate Their own life by going through these messages. Never give up.

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  4. Hey you are seriously get me on surprise the way you are bandageing yourself it gives really nice pleasure you have not stopped and giving something outod the box to your peer wish u all the best

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